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from OPRAH
If a man wants you, nothing can keep away
if he doesnt want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for  a relationship thats  not meant to be.
Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find  what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you cant be freinds.
A friend wouldnt mistreat a friend. Dont  settle  if you feel like  he is stringing  you along , then he he probably  is.
Dont stay because you think  it will get better.
You’ll be mad at yourself a year later  for staying  when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different woman.
He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you differently?
Always haVE YOUR OWN SET of friends separate  from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a mans behavior.
Change comes from within.
Dont ever make him feel he is more important that you are… even if he has more education  or in a better job.
Do not make him a quasi-god. He is a man nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man  define who you are
Never borrows someone elses  man.
If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you  the way you allow him to treat you.
All men are not dogs
You should not be the one doing all the bending.. compromiose in a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships… there is nothing cute about the baggage….
Deal with your issues before pursuing  a new relationships
You should never look  for someon who will  complete  you… a relationships  consist of two whole individuals.  look for someone complementary  not supplementary.
Dating is fun… even if he doesn’t turn out to be mr right.
Make him miss you sometimes… when  man always  knows were you are and youre always readily available  to him. he takes you for granted.
Never move into his mothers house.
Never co sighn for a man.
Dont fully coomit to a man who doesnt give  you everything  that you need.
but get to know others.